Tag Archives: stepmum of the year

Bite Back

I was over at Family In Bloom reading Tulip’s latest about how her husband put a really powerful and appropriate boundary in place for her pre-teen stepdaughter, Daisy. Go read her post, if you haven’t already – the way Tulip’s husband handled the situation … Continue reading

5 Comments

Filed under Kids, Stepfamily Life

Top 10 Remarriage and Stepfamily Blogs for 2010

Yay! I’m thrilled to announce (a bit late – as ever, there’s been lots going on here) that Stepmum Of The Year picked up a gong from the fantastic stepfamily resource site reMarriage Works as one of their Top 10 … Continue reading

1 Comment

Filed under Linkety-Link, Remarriage, Resources, Stepfamily Life, Writing

Protected: The Way Forward

There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

Enter your password to view comments.

Filed under Communication, Stepfamily Life, Writing

News

I know it’s been a while, and I’m not even going to apologise. Nope, not sorry! The last month or so has been a really important recuperation time; it’s been so vital for me to take a break from stepmummery … Continue reading

9 Comments

Filed under Family, Lovely Man, Me, Remarriage, Stepfamily Life, Travel

Small delights

I did the school run for the Boys by myself today and will be again tomorrow, since the Lovely Man has two early starts at work. By “school run” I don’t just mean the drive in to school but the … Continue reading

6 Comments

Filed under Family, Food, Kids, Me, Stepfamily Life

Shades of beige

Monday was the first night of our regular week with the kids. As usual, Boy A was fairly hostile towards me: he refused to respond to my hello, and every comment I made (not to him – I don’t waste … Continue reading

14 Comments

Filed under Communication, Kids, Lovely Man, Speaking Up Challenge, Stepfamily Life

Oh, what a night

And it’s not even late December back in ’63… Normally the Boys read at every meal, and while it’s certainly a bit antisocial, breakfasts and dinners are peaceful enough, if punctuated only by grunts in reply to adult questions. It’s … Continue reading

11 Comments

Filed under Family, Food, Kids, Lovely Man, Stepfamily Life

Again???

Yes, again. I must have asked a lot of intrusive questions in a past life… This time, though, I had the kernel of a plan. Remembering Peggy’s wise advice, I was ready with my response. Or as ready as you … Continue reading

7 Comments

Filed under Communication, Stepfamily Life

The Getaway

I’m spending a couple of much-needed days away at the moment while the Lovely Man takes a week’s “Boy Time” in the kids’ city. As much as I support the Boys getting time alone with their Dad, it wasn’t a … Continue reading

32 Comments

Filed under Family, Self-Care Challenge, Stepfamily Life

The search string diaries bite back

Trawling through three months of blog statistics yesterday, I discovered what may well be the strangest search string ever. (Subtext here: with the current mix of three rampant Boys in my loungeroom, the Lovely Man’s father and stepmother arriving this … Continue reading

4 Comments

Filed under Family, Food, Kids, Stepfamily Life, The Search String Diaries, Writing