Category Archives: Speaking Up Challenge

Shades of beige

Monday was the first night of our regular week with the kids. As usual, Boy A was fairly hostile towards me: he refused to respond to my hello, and every comment I made (not to him – I don’t waste … Continue reading

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Normal transmission will resume shortly

I’ve been on unplanned blog downtime for a month or so now. Life has felt very overwhelming. Kid stuff, ex stuff, relationship stuff, me stuff, Lovely Man stuff, our incredibly dense schedule, and the endless travel and separation from the … Continue reading

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Speak Up Week Challenge – first check-in

The Speak Up Week challenge continues. Our last few days with the Boys were spent taking them interstate to visit the Lovely Man’s extended family. I find travelling with the kids a real “hot button” time when the biological force field … Continue reading

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Speak Up Week Challenge

A few months on from my adventures in extreme self-care, it’s challenge time again. The challenge concept is a useful one. Especially the accountability factor – there’s nothing like thinking hmmm, what am I going to post as today’s self-care? to motivate … Continue reading

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