Monthly Archives: June 2011

Stepfamily wedding vow suggestions. Anyone? Help!

So, the Lovely Man and I are getting married. And he wants to include something in the ceremony that includes and maybe even speaks directly to the Boys. It’s hard to navigate. So I’m cautious. There are a few “nots”. … Continue reading

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Filed under Family, Kids, Remarriage, Stepfamily Life

The network

As time passes for me in my stepmother role, I am more and more coming to appreciate the importance of my network. Only a stepmother knows the feeling (or a former stepmother, for that matter) isn’t just a useful mantra, but … Continue reading

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Filed under Communication, Resources, Stepfamily Life

Bite Back

I was over at Family In Bloom reading Tulip’s latest about how her husband put a really powerful and appropriate boundary in place for her pre-teen stepdaughter, Daisy. Go read her post, if you haven’t already – the way Tulip’s husband handled the situation … Continue reading

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Filed under Kids, Stepfamily Life